About
Into the Wild is an Adult Ed program for Journey Church Tacoma for those who want to practice hearing the Holy Spirit.
And by “practice” I mean “being intentional, training so as to grow.”
Why be intentional about growth?
The fancy word for growth — maturity, the process of being formed more and more into the likeness of Jesus — is “sanctification.” It begins with the Holy Spirit’s work (1 Peter 1:2), but we’ve got a role to play too.
Regardless of the word you use, this process of being transformed (Romans 12:2) brings God-designed blessing to us: it deepens our confidence that we truly belong to Christ (1 John 2:3-6), empowers greater freedom from sin (Romans 6:18; Galatians 5:1), increases joy and peace (Galatians 5:22-23), empowers deeper fellowship with God (Psalm 24:3-4; John 14:21), and increases transformation into the image of Christ (2 Corinthians 3:18).
Of course, your mileage may vary.
But I believe a faithful way to sum up part of what the Bible says about this might go like this:
God grows us spiritually when we seek to help others for their good and for His glory.
So how do I do that?
There are obvious (and foundational!) ways to develop a your relationship with God such prayer or reading your Bible. There are also less obvious ways, like how you do your job (not even kidding).
This program is one of those less obvious ways — a way of asking someone about their story that is structured to bring blessing to them. It’s story listening, if you will, as a Spirit-led practice. I call it “Tell Me Your Story.”
What are we going to do?
Tell Me Your Story (TMYS) is a way of connecting with another person, but the point is not whether or not they do or don’t share their story, or what they do or don’t say, or whether or not “God stuff” comes up.
The point is practicing interacting with them and being in touch with the Holy Spirit’s presence and guidance at the same time.
Again, mileage may vary.
Along the way we’ll gather to learn, share, and pray, You’ll go off to do normal life and some short daily moments with the Holy Spirit and a journal. And you’ll invite a friend to coffee. Notice, jot down, talk and pray about it, jot down a few words more.
Importantly, the spiritual practices or disciplines point is never the activities themselves, per se. It’s drawing near to God, working with Him to be more and more like Jesus. In this case, we’ll use practicing hearing the Holy Spirit in normal life conversations.
The bottom line
Into the Wild isn’t a Bible study, but there isn’t a single word I’ve not defended theologically in the scholarly side of my final grad work.
My friends, if the Holy Spirit is invited into the conversation, even a conversation that never brings up “God stuff” is a ministry. I call it a “ministry of showing up,” and even this serves a specific purpose in God’s mission.
Some of you have followed Jesus for decades. Others maybe only a few days.
That’s ok, because the Holy Spirit meets you where you’re at.
We don’t earn salvation, but we do partner with Him and other people in our own transformation. There are many biblically-sound ways to do that. TMYS is but one of them.
Start where you’re at. Learn something new. Test everything I share like the Bereans (Acts 17:11). Do it together as Journey Church Tacoma, because iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17).
I’m glad to be on the journey with you, honored to be a servant trail guide for a few miles together… Into the Wild.
~Roger (& Kristine) Courville
P.S. And thank you so very kindly for helping out with part of my (our!) big school project!
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Yes, using Zoom is not a requirement —a regular conference call works, too.
Phone: 253-215-8782 US (Tacoma)
Meeting ID: 864 754 1763
Participant ID: (none needed, just hit # again)
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Link to Zoom Meeting:
https://zoom.us/j/8647541763?pwd=SzFzOGJxZkFYTzdFdnUycUFBWlMrZz09
Tips
The experience is computer is better on a computer than a phone
Use earbuds or a headset for the best experience
More join instructions (if needed)
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Recordings will be made, but they rae not automatically distributed.
Shoot your request here: Roger@ForTheHope.com
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At the first gathering (Base Camp) on 9/24.
If you aren’t local, you can request an all-digital version (pdf) that has fillable fields. This will be emailed just prior to the first gathering.
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Yes. You can even join a few days late if you wish.
Reach out to me (Roger@ForTheHope.com or 503.329.1662) and I’ll get you squared away.
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No problem!
Think about it going to the gym…some is better than none.
This is ultimately about your relationship with the Holy Spirit — much of that work is on your own.
Start where you’re at and keep on keepin’ on, whether or not you join us or now.
(But if you do, you might discover something kinda different…I hope you do!)
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No problem. Here’s why.
“Tell me your story” is a way of approaching a conversation with the intent to bless them and practice listening to the Holy Spirit. It presumes a way of doing that…when you have time to connect with someone for a conversation.
The question for the research is “what results for somebody learning and applying TMYS?”
But the real goal is that you grow in your relationship with the Holy Spirit in everyday life and the conversations that happen along the way.
Even if you can’t do the Coffee Connection, you can still learn and apply this stuff in regular life. You’ll still get something out of the program.
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You bet!
A couple things happen in person that we’ll have to accommodate — the initial gathering is in person AND Zoom. But we’ll hand out physical three-ring binders, and participants will have sign/hand in their ‘learning contract’ (see elsewhere on this page).
To help you, you can either a) receive a PDF with fillable fields (and you can digitally sign, email to ‘hand it in’), OR I can print/ship from Fedex (or both). If print, you’ll need to scan or take pictures and email me various things over the six weeks.
Just let me know what serves you.
Support
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No.
You don’t have to tell anyone anything.
But you will, if you choose, come face to face with God and His grace on a few things. That’s between you and Him.
That’s the invitation before you…up to you what you do with it.
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Nope. You can do as much or little as you want.
Journaling is part of the program because research shows it improves learning. And because it adds to this researcher’s ability to detect change across a “population.” But it’s all optional
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“Tell Me Your Story” is shorthand for a short sequence of questions that you don’t even have to remember to “succeed” in the program.
It’s a way of approaching conversation, listening to the Holy Spirit as you intentionally extend the hospitality of listening, no matter where the conversation goes.
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No problem. We’re not their counselor or coach. Be a friend! Stay curious! And enjoy the triple whip extra shot Tacomacchiato!
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Invite someone to join you for coffee. Jot down thoughts, feelings, prayers.
Show up. Pray and make an honest attempt to naturally work in, “Tell me your story.” With whatever knowledge you have (that will depend on whether you’re two weeks in or five).
Journal about it.
(P.S. Remember that completion of the program nets you a $25 stipend in the form of a gift card — a bit like Roger covering your expense and an invitation to get that gooey thing with extra butter frosting.)
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I call it a “ministry of showing up.” Real academics call it a “ministry of presence.”
There are things that happen in the spiritual realm and the realm of science that we can observe and measure. For instance, a couple years ago Scientific American published preliminary findings that when two people share stories, their brainwaves begin to synchronize (so science is just catching up to the wisdom of God revealed in Scripture).
Dr. Todd W. Hall (the academic whose work is foundational here) recently pointed out three things AI cannot do that are potentially what you bring to a Coffee Connection:
One, “AI can tell you about God's love. But it can't be a secure base that you actually experience in your gut and soul.”
Two, “AI can explain attachment theory. But it can't ultimately provide the co-regulation that rewires insecure patterns.”
Three, “AI can give you coping strategies. But it can't offer the implicit relational knowledge that comes only through genuine human presence.”
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Show up. Pray. Be curious.
The point is progress, not perfection.
The ultimate goal is growth in your relationship with the Holy Spirit, whether a little or a lot.
Whether or not you do depends, in part, on you doing the work. How you do is yours to describe. I’m just the observer.
How do you succeed? By analogy, how would you succeed in any relationship? What you get out you would put into your own words, and that belongs to you.
How does the project succeed? You help me a ton by just doing what you can — particularly if you can join the first and last gatherings, regardless of what happens in between. Whatever you jot down (journaling) is super-useful, even if just a few words here and there.
Thank you.
About the Program
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A final thesis project/paper for the degree of Doctor of Ministry
Something I can give to God and ask Him how He wants me to serve His mission with it
To get out of grad school, land in full-time vocational ministry loving on some group of misfits like me, and make my wife happy that I finally have a real job
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Research is useful, even if it doesn’t bear out the hypothesis… meaning “does what you predict will happen, happen…and why do think it turned out that way?”
My prayer is that what is developed will bring glory to God by helping real people do real life with a better relationship with the Holy Spirit (whatever that might mean to them).
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Short: Only the research team will see your answers; all data will be later destroyed. Roger is not getting paid to create and run this program.
See your three-ring binder (Participant Guidebook+Journal) to find the Learning Contract…all details are there.
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Expectations, consent, and getting paid. So we both honor your dignity and we’re all cool with the ethics board approving the research.
There is a copy you’ll sign in your notebook on the first day of class.
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Research is “mixed methods,” meaning there will be things like multiple-choice questions (“quantitative”) and what you write or say in your journal or on a call.
As stated in “Privacy and disclosures,” only the research team has access, and all will be later destroyed.
Details are in the Learning Contract in your three-ring binder (“Participant Guidebook+Journal”).
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No.
Technically it’s “pre-evangelism,” meaning intentional engagement designed to move someone one notch closer to Jesus (regardless of whether or not “God stuff” comes up).
The gospel is the good news about the person and work of Jesus, the fact that I’m a sinner in need of a Savior, and my eternal destiny hangs in the balance if I refuse Jesus’ free offer (Rom. 6:23) and invitation, “Follow me.” Evangelism is the telling of this “good news.”
That said, we all recognize that it is God who saves (not us), and the Holy Spirit has been working on the people you meet long before you got to know them or invited them to coffee.
Just like ‘Paul planted and Apollos watered’ (1 Corinthians 3:6), so we also might meet someone on one tiny slice of their overall journey.
And if you’re intentional about blessing someone in manner consistent with God’s heart for them, that’s participation in God’s mission. It’s like tilling the ground before it’s plant.
This research engages investigates “tell me your story” as a relational spiritual discipline (something we can be intentional about in a quest to transformed more into the likeness of Christ).
But again, the point isn’t the means, it’s the outcome – you growing to be more like Jesus because you’re in Him because the Holy Spirit indwells you. So how often do you engage a conversation thinking that it’s sacred because you’re just showing up where He’s already at work?
When you show up, you potentially bring God’s common grace and blessing to others, sanctifying them by your willing engagement (1 Cor. 7:14a), even if it’s not a time when you share the gospel or talk about “God stuff.”
Is that “lifestyle evangelism?” No.
This is not about “living a good life” and hoping people fall in love with Jesus as a result.
Here, the context is “connection” — a “connection” that has a potential to take root. TMYS happens to be rooted in a way of asking questions that potentially removes roadblocks for them both socially and spiritually.
Both the Bible and psychology research affirm that someone’s relationship with God is related to how they connect with people.
We’re just going to be intentional about it by praying and inviting them, “Tell me your story.”
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Show up.
When you can, engage the material, even if very little.
Jot down your thoughts, feelings, and prayers (journaling) as you can.
Thank you for even asking.
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We don’t see the wind blow, but we know it on our skin and in watching the leaves on the trees, right?
Here’s a (simplified) way of thinking about it that I present for consideration.
In one sense you cannot research a relationship with the Holy Spirit because He is eternal and personal to every other human who’s ever lived. The spirit realm is immaterial reality.
But as pastor and philosopher Dallas Willard put it, "No understanding of the human self can be theoretically or practically adequate if it does not deal with the spiritual life." So now what?
The Bible speaks of “evidence” (Hebrews 11:1) and eyewitnesses to material realities that were affected by the immaterial realm (Acts 1:8; 1 Corinthians 15:3-8).
Importantly, the Bible offers a clue by way of analogy when John writes, "The wind blows where it pleases, and you hear its sound, but you don’t know where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit” (John 3:8).
Put another way, the spiritual realm affects the material realm…and the material realm can be observed. Even if personal experience in the spiritual realm is wholly subjective, your report of it is like eyewitness evidence.
A short list of some of the effects the Holy Spirit produces within the lives of human beings as indicated by the New Testament includes such measurable things such as:
Transformation and renewal:
Convicting you of sin and need for a savior (John 16:7–11) (conversion and growth) | Leading you into a deeper understanding of Christ (John 16:12–15) (knowledge) | Empowering you to actually obey God’s moral commands (Romans 8:1–4) (behavior) | Is promised by God (2 Corinthians 3:18) and was promised long before Jesus (Ezekiel 36:26-27).
Inner witness empowering outer assurance:
Assurance that you are one of God’s children (Romans 8:15–16) (confidence) | Empowerment to experience a dynamic, despair-defeating sense of hope (Romans 15:13) (self-reported experience)
Empowerment for mission:
Led in actionable ministry guidance (Acts 16:6–10) (behavior) | Experiencing vital, joyful, prophetic worship (Ephesians 5:18–20) (self-reported experience) | Being empowered to boldly and effectively bear witness (Acts 1:8) (self-reported experience, behavior)
Fruit of the Spirit: Developing the personality and character traits of Christ himself (Galatians 5:22–25) (behavior)
Signs and Wonders:
Using previously unknown languages (Acts 2:1-4) (behavior)
Spiritual Gifts in Action:
Exercising your unique gifts for the common good (1 Corinthians 12:7) (behavior) | Standing firm and interceding for others to do the same (Ephesians 6:10–18) (behavior) | Bringing His presence and power in various edifying, community-building ways (1 Corinthians 12:4–8) (behavior)[1]
In short, we see where the wind blows. The spiritual realm can and does affect the material realm (and vice versa). We can therefore observe and measure changes in the material realm to see the effects of the Holy Spirt in our lives.
[1] Inspired by and heavily indebted to Gary Tyra, The Holy Spirit in Mission: Prophetic Speech and Action in Christian Witness (Downers Grove, IL: IVP Academic: An imprint of InterVarsity Press, 2011), 28–29.
About the Research
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Spiritual formation “a process of being formed in the image of Christ for the sake of others.”[1]
Do not waste time arguing over godless ideas and old wives’ tales. Instead, train yourself to be godly. ~1 Timothy 4:7, NLT
By his divine power, God has given us everything we need for living a godly life. We have received all of this by coming to know him, the one who called us to himself by means of his marvelous glory and excellence.
And because of his glory and excellence, he has given us great and precious promises. These are the promises that enable you to share his divine nature and escape the world’s corruption caused by human desires.
In view of all this, make every effort to respond to God’s promises. Supplement your faith with a generous provision of moral excellence, and moral excellence with knowledge, and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with patient endurance, and patient endurance with godliness, and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love for everyone. ~2 Peter 1:3-8, NLT, emaphsis mine
[1] M. Robert Mulholland Jr., Invitation to a Journey: A Road Map for Spiritual Formation (Downers Grove, IL: IVP Books: An Imprint of InterVarsity Press, 2016), 19.
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Spiritual disciplines are actions (if not habits) that promote “the means to Godliness,”[1] in union with Christ and being conformed to His image in the power of the Holy Spirit.[2]
Notably, the point of a spiritual discipline isn’t the practice itself (the means), it’s your holiness (the end). God initiates, and you begin by responding with a submitted and teachable heart, joining His mission above your own, and offering Him your wilingess to live into who He made you to be with the help of the Holy Spirit’s indwelling power.
[1] Donald S. Whitney, Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life (Colorado Springs, CO: NavPress, 1991), 17.
[2] Evan Howard, “Evangelical Spirituality,” in Four Views on Christian Spirituality, ed. Stanley N. Gundry and Bruce Demarest, Zondervan Counterpoints Series (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 2012), 180.
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Item desHumanity was created for relationship (Gen. 1:26-28) with God and others. Spiritual disiciplines used to nurture relationships are first personal (your relationship with God). But God says to love Him and neighbor, that we actually love Him by loving others. A relational spiritual discipline, then, is anything you do for God’s glory, exercised intentionally in communion with Christ by the Spirit, for the sake of others in everyday interactions in, and beyond, the Church.
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A spiritual gift is one or more ways the Holy Spirit has gifted you (1 Cor. 12-13) to be on God’s mission (2 Cor. 5:15-20), but especially in and for the church (Romans 12:3-8).
A spiritual discipline is something you practice, being with God, growing in relation ship, for the sake of others, in love and obedience, as a response to God’s love and mercy.
Both gifts (from God and disciplines by us) are part of how we love, serve, and grow on the journey.
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There’s a reason this line of About questions begins with answering “what is spiritual formation” with only Bible verses. Being intentional about following Jesus and becoming more and more like Him is Scripturally sound.
However, how you do this — the means by which you do it — is a place where many leaders have gone off the rails.
There’s a lot of “pop” literature out there that taps into questionable sources and/or uses flawed ways of interpreting the Bible. We especially see this in some who “read INTO” the Bible — a big no-no, and I think part of why God holds leaders and teachers to higher account.
By all means, be curious and intentional. God smiles when you do.
But also know that Pastor Myron and the JCT elders are there — charged by God — to walk with you and even guard you…including helping you find faithful resources.
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Does your life look more and more like Jesus? You’re growing.
Is your relationship with the Holy Spirit changing in some way (that ultimately helps your life look more like Jesus)? You’re growing.
The goal of this program is to give you one way to do that. I praying you do!